Stay Married For a Long Time

Did you think that love conquers all?, if yes you are well advised to read all this article. The problem is that often people get married with the idea that their chemistry or undying love for each other will keep them together forever.

Think about how you got together, was it through friends, work or a online dating site like match or plenty of fish?, also known as plentyofish, did you really give yourself enough time to get to know each other?

However, with a very large percentage of marriages ending in divorce these days, it’s obvious that a lot of marriages that start out well still fail. Therefore if you want your marriage to be a long time success it pays to know a few truths before getting married. Here are a number of tips for staying together longer:

Over the years, people often drift apart or relationships and marriages become stale because couples fail to do new and special things together.

That’s why going on new and refreshing dates is so important. In fact, there is something about dating that creates a feeling of magic in a relationship and can even bring relationships out of a rut.

While on a date, you also put more effort into your appearance, have more uninterrupted time to communicate on a deeper level and are naturally drawn closer together.

Stuck for new ideas?, just try using Google and search for fun and interesting activities in your local town, city or state, you will be surprised at what you can find.

It’s a well documented statistic that couples who have dated for a year or longer before marriage have a significantly lower rate of divorce than those who married after a short dating period.

A year of seeing each other gives time for many emotions to surface and many character traits to be discovered. You may adore someone in the spring, but despise him or her in the winter.

Asking someone for his or her hand in marriage on the third date isn’t romantic, it’s really very silly, it may work for a few people but for most it will end in tears.

Often times, as a relationship ages, partners tend to stop praising each other because they ‘assume’ their partner already knows what they’re thinking.

When in reality, a day should not go by without you praising your partner. Compliment them on their cooking, reaffirm that they’re the greatest person in the world or tell them they’re a wonderful role model. If you want to be loved and romanced by your sweetheart, love and romance them first. When they’re feeling loved, it is much easier for them to love in return.

Are you a super supporter of what your mate does and says? So do you cheer them on and praise them constantly? Or do they always hear boos or silence~Or do they always hear boos or silence}?

Couples with the most problems are often the ones that say, “I just don’t understand him/her.”

So let me ask you: How knowledgeable are you about your mate’s profession or the degree they are pursuing? Do you know anything about his or her family heritage? Are you able to have a meaningful conversation about her cross-stitch hobby or his interest in football? If you are a man, do you understand what women experience during PMS or menopause?

You don’t need to be identical, but make an effort to learn about the things that interest your better half in life and you’ll grow closer as a result.

Does your partner want children? Do you both want careers? Do they have a history of spending their way into debt? Do they go to church?

In my opinion, the biggest reason almost half of marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to ask each other the right questions BEFORE they get married.

I guess people think they’ll be able to change their spouses after marriage and everything will be better. Wrong. If you fail to sit down and discuss finances, religion, sex, housing, your future, and other topics in great detail, you could end up with nothing but argument after argument for the rest of your days.

In the end, if you both have completely different views, desires and goals in life, there’s no guarantee that chemistry or “I love you’s” will help you stay together.

Make it your utmost priority to understand each other ‘inside-out’ BEFORE you take that walk down the aisle, and it really does not matter where you met, even if it was a dating site like planty of fish, what counts is that you put into action some of the tips you have just read in this article, good luck.

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Love Can Sometimes Come Down Hard

New relationships come equipped with a devotion that is sometimes a bit out of control. You want things to be right between you at all times. She is your top priority, your all, your everything. There is nothing you would not do to please her. And you go about your days doing just that, and then one day it hits you, some regrets have taken root in your mind, and things have gotten away from you.

The way you were always used to living has been replaced with an eagerness to please your wife. After all, marriage is supposed to be a sacrifice, right? If you really love someone, you will not mind making the necessary sacrifices to please her, right? But as you mold yourself into this new man, some of the things you loved about the old man, slowly make their exit from your life.

She is heading to your new home to get things ready, while you stay behind to clean things up and meet her there later. To have the money needed for this transition, you stay behind to do some odd jobs and haul off the trash. If you do the jobs, you will have enough to cover the move. She counted everything down to the penny.

You give her a kiss goodbye and watch her drive off to your new home. You finish putting things on the truck in your driveway. The lid plops open on one of the boxes and you see, right before you eyes, your best golf instruction book, laying amidst the trash. You can hardly believe it. How could anyone mistake this gem for trash. It is the book that taught you how to golf when your first picked up a club.

You need every penny, it has all been accounted for, and you have no way of backing out. You lined up some work with your neighbors, and it is enough to get what you need done. Doing the work does not bother you, but that book must be saved. You try to convince yourself that she is certainly worth it, and it is not such a big sacrifice to throw things out, but it can not hurt to keep your book. Then you pull out the leather watch that your Dad bought you for pitching the winning all star game when you played in little league. Your heart sinks again. You surely can not part with that.

You are a little sick at your stomach, as you try to carry on with the packing. It seems almost like a mild form of shock. You almost lost, in only minutes, two extremely important parts of your life. As you grab an old baseball glove from the last box, a rhodium plated ring falls out. You instantly recognize it as the ring they presented you with at a ceremony held in your honor from the boys club. It was to honor you for ten years of loyal service in working with the kids in your community.

This was the ring that was given to you for your outstanding work with the local Boys’ Club. For ten years of faithful service that helped many young boys find help to stay off the streets and find purpose and meaning to their lives. It was a real accomplishment in your life. You realize that, just because you are starting a new life with her, it is a merger of two former lives, not the death of who you are. And you also realize, that if you are not careful, love can really hurt sometimes.

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Beyonce and Jay-Z wedding ?

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The Wedding Singer – Love Stinks (Adam Sandler)

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This Ring- A New Wedding Song/ New Wedding Music

ONLY AVAILABLE AT: www.tcartermusic.com This Ring is a great new wedding song from T Carter Music. Follow us on twitter now! Go to twitter.com Written for the ring exchange ceremony, This Ring lyrically touches the heart and truly says it all. Words and Music by: Anthony W. Carter T Carter Music Lyrics: I've been waiting for this moment for so long An answered prayer, I know you are the one I give to you my heart and soul With a love that will never grow old In my life, I can see That you were made for me You'll be there to catch me if I fall All the days, I have prayed And the love that I have saved With this ring, I'm giving you my all I thank God for the gift He has given me A love that's strong for all of eternity I give to you all my days With a love for all of your ways In my life, I can see That you were made for me I'll be there to catch you if you fall All the days, I have prayed And the love that I have saved With this ring, I'm giving you my all In the days that we grow old The times may change but our love will remain As we look back on this day now We stood the test of time Living the promise of our vow In my life, I can see That you were made for me I'll be there to catch you if you fall All the days, I have prayed And the love that I have saved With this ring, I'm giving you my all…

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